- Kingdom Mentality
- Posts
- Purpose in the Middle of Pain
Purpose in the Middle of Pain
Trusting That God Is Working, Even When It Hurts
🌑 When Pain Comes Without Warning
Pain rarely asks for permission.
It enters uninvited — in the form of heartbreak, loss, disappointment, betrayal, financial strain, or the slow ache of unanswered prayers.
It leaves you questioning everything you thought you knew about God and yourself.
Maybe you’ve said these words:
“I thought God was with me…”
“Why would He allow this?”
“I don’t know if I can make it through.”
Pain clouds clarity. It distorts the future. It shrinks your world to a narrow focus: survival.
But friend, pain does not mean God has abandoned you. In fact, He is closer now than you think.
🔥 1. God Works Through the Wounds
Our Savior is no stranger to pain.
Jesus — fully God and fully man — walked through betrayal, loneliness, and physical suffering. And yet, the very instrument of His death became the gateway to our salvation.
That same God is with you now.
The wound you carry? He sees it.
The tears you’ve cried? He’s caught every one.
The silence that feels heavy? He’s in it with you.
If the cross teaches us anything, it’s this: God doesn’t just allow pain—He redeems it.
“He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain… by His wounds we are healed.”
— Isaiah 53:3,5 (NIV)
🛠 2. The Middle Isn’t the End
Pain tries to convince you it’s permanent — that this is where your story stops.
But your current chapter is not the conclusion.
God does some of His greatest work in the middle of our mess.
Think about this:
Joseph was forgotten in prison before he stepped into the palace.
David was hunted in caves before he wore the crown.
Job lost everything — but God restored him double.
They didn’t see the ending when they were in the valley. But they trusted the One who holds the pen.
So can you.
“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion…”
— Philippians 1:6 (NIV)
🌱 3. There’s Growth in the Dark Places
Have you ever noticed how seeds grow?
They are planted in the soil — dark, buried, alone — and yet, that’s where transformation begins.
Some of God’s most powerful growth happens in hidden, painful seasons.
In the darkness, He builds depth.
In the waiting, He strengthens trust.
In the silence, He teaches you to listen for His whisper.
This season may not feel fruitful — but fruit is being formed in places you can’t yet see.
“Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.”
— John 12:24 (NIV)
💡 4. Pain Prepares You for Purpose
God doesn’t waste a single tear. What feels like devastation may actually be preparation.
Your pain is equipping you with:
Empathy — to comfort others who are hurting.
Wisdom — to walk in discernment.
Strength — to carry what’s next with grace and resilience.
Testimony — to speak life into dark places.
You’re not being punished — you’re being prepared.
You’re not being overlooked — you’re being refined.
“After you have suffered a little while, God… will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.”
— 1 Peter 5:10 (NIV)
🌍 5. Your Story Isn’t Just for You
There will come a day when someone else is sitting in the same pain you’re in now.
And they will need what you’ve learned.
Your scars will become roadmaps.
Your breakthrough will become someone else’s encouragement.
Your “why did this happen?” will become “this is how God used it.”
Let your life preach hope.
“They triumphed… by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony…”
— Revelation 12:11 (NIV)
🙏 A Prayer for Purpose in the Pain
Father,
This pain is heavy, and some days I don’t understand why.
But I trust that You are with me in the fire.
Remind me that this season is not wasted — that You are using it to shape me, grow me, and prepare me.
Help me hold on when I feel like giving up.
Let this pain not define me, but refine me.
Let this become a story that glorifies You.
Show me that there is still purpose in the middle of this.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
📖 Scriptures to Meditate On:
Romans 8:28 – “In all things God works for the good…”
Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted…”
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 – “…so we can comfort others with the comfort we ourselves receive…”
James 1:2-4 – “The testing of your faith produces perseverance.”
Job 23:10 – “When He has tested me, I will come forth as gold.”
Isaiah 61:3 – “Beauty for ashes, joy for mourning…”
With love,
Brandon
Kingdom Mentality
Share The Good News!
If you enjoyed this newsletter, why not help others with it? Forward this email to family and friends or share this link so they can subscribe as well: https://kingdommentality.beehiiv.com/subscribe
Support Our Ministry☺️!
Our newsletter is and will always be FREE, but we greatly appreciate those who CHOOSE to pay and support our mission and ministry! If we have impacted you in anyway, we ask that you help support our ministry by upgrading below for ONLY $1.99 a month (less than you spend at Starbucks for that cup of coffee you get everyday😉). It really helps us out!
Already a paying subscriber? Sign In.